Posted in Heart matters, marriage, Motherhood/ Parenting
Tagged being married, cooking, female friendship, friends, friendship, ice cream, ice cream maker, marriage, miscarriage, motherhood, pregnancy, Quinoa, recipes, sorbet, TEDtalks, travel, travelling
Enthusiastic recommendations for reads that will provide you with abundant reasons to rejoice, reflect or recharge, as suggested by TED speakers and TED-Ed educators. If you’re searching for some calm The Peace of Wild Things: And Other Poems by Wendell Berry This little book of poetry is my current morning dose of calm, and I use…
via TED’s winter reading list: 78 feel-good books — ideas.ted.com
In case you are looking for some great reading recommendations and some great TED talks to listen to.
10 December,2018 in books, design, Heart matters, home, life, marriage, Motherhood/ Parenting, school, working
Tagged books, Books reading, lists, recommendations, TEDtalks
Please read this, kind of long-ish post about choice and how cultures around the worl make decisions and then watch the talks below.
In response, this made me think of how I grew up with a very small sphere within which I could choose things because a lot of the boundaries were determined for me and all that was left for me was to choose within those limits. As an example, I had to study for two hours during the holidy afternoons between 2 and 4 rather than play with my friends outside, what I could choose though is whether to study Maths or English. My sisters and I had to pick one evening of the week to cook because my mom would not be cooking for us all anymore (she had the weekend to do that) so whatever day I selected, it had to be done.
I think about this particularly around parenting and how children today get involved in so many decisions and how it would be so much easier if the bigger-ish decisions were made for them and they were given a small sphere to operate within and as they grew up, reduce the bounds of decision and allow them the freedom to make their own decisions and serve more as an advisor or a sounding board. Too idealist, maybe so I shall see once I am a mom.
I decided to keep a log of the articles I read today, whether good or bad.
When I am a lazy blogger, I always come back with a myriad of links for people to enjoy. This time is no different either, so enjoy!!
- My new love, mussels and here is a recipe to try it out.
- This article made me wish I had a job that allowed for more flexi working in terms of location.
- If/When I get a daughter, I pray I teach her some of these lessons, particularly 6,12, 15,24, 25, 31 combined with 32, 36, 37, 71, 87, 91, 92 and 93.
- Heard a week where I just wanted to listen some inspiring TEDTalks and this blog post nicely summarises some of the Top 20 talks of the last year.
- Since I recently read Malcolm Gladwell’s David and Goliath, this critic of the 10,000 hour rule sounds fitting.
- Brilliant article on how to get the most from your employees while giving them the opportunity or the necessary leg up.
- I definitely feel upset by the President saying, in response to Nkandla-gate, that I did not ask for the R250m renovations on my house. EPIC FAIL!!!
- I am totally overdosing on food porn and these are some of my best blogs at the moment: Naturally Ella, Food52, Serious Eats, Love and Lemons and Smitten Kitchen.
- As I am currently looking at stationery, it was a pleasant surprise to stumble upon Google Fonts.
Hope I have made sufficient amends for my absence on the posting front.
Posted in home
Tagged 10000 Rule, cooking, flexi working, Food Porn, Google, Google Fonts, home, lessons for my daughters, mussels, Nkandla, TEDtalks
Work has been a bit slow this past week so I have had a chance to look through my email and catch up on interesting reading too. Developing positive body image in your children. This article on mentorship. Where this … Continue reading
*The title of this post is taken from the TEDTalk given by Sheryl Sandberg available HERE.
In case you are not able to load it, these are the three points she raises about what it takes to become a leader at the office and/or stay at the office.
- Sit at the table – Be present. Don’t wait to be invited to participate in the big discussions and make the big decisions. Attribute the success to yourself and not to others as women typically do. Women need to reach out for opportunities more.
- Make your partner a real partner – Part of what hinders women is the desire to do it all and not allowing their partner to participate in household work. Having to juggle childcare, housework and office work and women tend to drop out of the workforce far easier than men.
- Don’t leave before you leave – How women plan to have babies and from that moment on that’s all that consumes her. Keep your foot on the gas pedal until you leave to have the baby.