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Tagged Africa, babies, books, home, Kenya, Kenyan elections, Kenyan music, music, Nairobi, Obama, race, recipes, Sunday Reads, women and work, women at work
Thanks Urban Dictionary for this.
- The slow feeling of regret after realization that a decision was a huge mistake.
- The punishment or fate a society deserves to receive.
The American people received their trumpence when they decided hate and ignorance was more affective and important than love and understanding.
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Tagged America, Apostle Paul, Black History, drugs, Japan, marijuana, Nyerere, Obama, Sunday Reads, Tanzania, war
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Tagged arranged marriage, fatherhood, Google, India, Johannesburg, loneliness, love, migration, Obama, Olympics, recycling, relationships, travel
- If you would like to incorporate more vegetables into your diet/ be vegan. Here’s how to go about doing so.
- Recipes to enjoy your grains.
- Such a beautiful and poignant story of motherhood.
- And this post on surviving after losing a mother from one of my most favourite bloggers.
- Creative ways to counter the rising pay gap e.g. publish pay info by gender, make an offer that ignores past salary levels, teach women how to negotiate.
- The Mr and I have the same and different takes to this Saturday dilemma.
- I so DO NOT endorse people that believe in presenteeism.
- This is the kind of meaningful stuff I want to do with myself.
- But what is this now???????????? Virginity testing, school only for virgins? Madness!!!
- Because who would not like poached pears with tea?
- Another tea recipe (tea-infused lemon tart)
- What Obama carries in his pocket … (Lemme know what you think?)
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Tagged cooking, Feminism, gender gap, Heart matters, home, life, marriage, motherhood, Obama, poached pears, recipes, relationships, Sunday reads 2016, tea, vegan, vegetarians, virginity, working
Travelled with some friends this weekend and so the Sunday reads were a bit late but here goes …
- A perfect age to get married? HUH? How old were you when you got married/ will you wait before you get married?
- Looking for various ways to use tomatoes in your cooking?
- Because I always wanted to be a pathologist …
- Because my two sisters have sons, here are a list of things that mommies of boys can do together.
- Obama will be in Nairobi for the weekend (and the city has shut down)
- I want to meet this girl. We could be friends. I am sure.
- I like this video and the subjects discussion on relationships, race, being foreign and gender.
- People over migration policy any day!
- If you are looking to make a very South African dish– mieliepap bread.
- Such a positive story. There are people whose lives are truly driven by a cause bigger than themselves
- Cauliflower tice biryani salad! YUM!
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Tagged cooking, friendship, home, marriage, migration, motherhood, Obama, passion, relationships, work, working
Enjoy your afternoon of Sunday reads!
- What’s in a name?
- I hear you, but I still struggle with this
- There is always that one question that seems to be doing the rounds in interviews. Here is the latest one
- Yes these are stupid outbursts but what happens to their lives afterwards?
- I can only pray for these people. May God judge them ever so severely!
- Because I love Obama
- Cooking with wine? Here are a few tips
- Oh my heart, such a cool dude. Please have a listen
- I might very well love to drink tea, as much as I love reading about it!
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Tagged cooking, economics, Heart matters, jobs, life, madness, names, Obama, tea, women, working
Some stuff I read over the past week and liked.
- Wanna know what Obama eats?
- Avoiding sexism in the Economics field.
- Because I Love Viola Davis.
- Why Teenagers behave as they do.
- Hair through the decades
- Why are slow cookers sales on the rise?
- Why twelve weeks of maternity leave?
- Very interesting project related to books
- Should bosses allow workers to work from home?
- Top 50 movies of the 2010s so far. First 50. Second 50.
- What happens when a restaurant dies?
- The unlikely intervention of meritocracy and privilege
- My next little challenge (starting on Ash Wednesday)
- So sad to hear that Parenthood is over.
- LOVE this chick’s (Rachel Kerr) music. She sounds like Bay but she is so much better.
- BONUS: Don’t know what this writer expected but she got told in the comments.
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Tagged books, cooking, design, economics, hairstyles, home, madness, motherhood, Movies, music, Obama, parenthood, Rachel Kerr, restaurants, sexism, teenagers, Viola Davis, working
Over a mug of tea or your drink of choice, please enjoy!
- How much does it cost to travel with Obama?
- As 35 is not TOO far off …
- John Legend, my first love
- What is your biggest regret? Well read this, watch this
- Young unemployed males (nonemployeds) and what they do
- How do you generate new ideas? One or Two
What did you read and enjoy from this past week?
I recently read Americanah, Chimamanda’s most recent offering.
The back of the book states:
From the award-winning author of Half of a Yellow Sun, a dazzling new novel: a story of love and race centered around a young man and woman from Nigeria who face difficult choices and challenges in the countries they come to call home.
As teenagers in a Lagos secondary school, Ifemelu and Obinze fall in love. Their Nigeria is under military dictatorship, and people are leaving the country if they can. Ifemelu—beautiful, self-assured—departs for America to study. She suffers defeats and triumphs, finds and loses relationships and friendships, all the while feeling the weight of something she never thought of back home: race. Obinze—the quiet, thoughtful son of a professor—had hoped to join her, but post-9/11 America will not let him in, and he plunges into a dangerous, undocumented life in London.
Years later, Obinze is a wealthy man in a newly democratic Nigeria, while Ifemelu has achieved success as a writer of an eye-opening blog about race in America. But when Ifemelu returns to Nigeria, and she and Obinze reignite their shared passion—for their homeland and for each other—they will face the toughest decisions of their lives.
Fearless, gripping, at once darkly funny and tender, spanning three continents and numerous lives, Americanah is a richly told story set in today’s globalized world: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s most powerful and astonishing novel yet.
- Race IS a big deal and we can’t be disingenuous and pretend otherwise.
- I also didn’t know I was black until I came to South Africa five and a bit years back. Even now, there is a separateness and difference, I am not like the local Blacks, I just don’t have the same kind of heritage issues.
- Loved how she highlighted the inter-racial differences talking about how a given Black character took the pains not to take an opinion because his family happened to be wealthier than the rest or how he was pro-Hilary and not pro-Obama. We are not a homogeneous nebulous cultural group, we are different.
- I loved how she spoke of the run up to Obama’s victory. I totally identified with that, the fear that he might be shot dead at any point/ they would discover something awful about him that would force him to get disqualified and then his Pastor spoke and I thought, no!
- Loved how she characterised the desperation that so many Africans have regarding moving abroad. Very palpable.
- About natural hair? I rock it, you don’t! Moving along swiftly.
- Saddened by the portrayal of Nigerian women and the fact that men appear to be firmly in control.
- It was nice to see her talk of modern day Nigeria and the fact that people do hustle and we appreciate this better when we contrast Obinze in London versus Obinze in Lagos/Abuja. Big boy about town!
- The apparent ending of the story further saddened me. Does Ifem take him back or not?
- While the story is pretty much about Ifem and Obinze, there were a few hollow characters. Curtis? Blake?
- Loved the names. So beautiful.
- Curiously, I do wonder what the problem was with the girl that Ifem first baby-sat. Was she molested, a psychopath,what?
- Dike, was another underdeveloped character, or maybe not, I am not sure. (Wondered how the name is pronounced as I read the book)
I loved this book but it made me immediately want to go back to Half of a Yellow Sun.
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Tagged Americanah, Being Black, books, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, natural hair, Nigeria, Obama, race, relationships, South Africa, women
This article was Freshly pressed on WordPress and I must say it is well written and got me really thinking. She talks about white privilege and race.
Ever wondered about Scientology?
For the mothers out there!
The university that has not admitted women since 1917! Also here.
Changes to the Obamas.
Why do people still eat white bread?
When did we start rolling our eyes to express contempt?
Talking weight in a relationship?
What did you read recently that made you giddy with joy?
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Tagged books, design, dot, Election 2012, good, Heart matters, home, madness, marriage, misc, Obama, school
while i was on holiday i changed my sleep pattern so i effectively became nocturnal and now that im back at the office, im SO paying for it- i feel like im paying with blood for the same! i have been averaging three to four hours sleep and i cant say im liking it at all coz for instance this minute in time i feel like falling on the floor and sleeping and if anyone’s gotta problem, they can stick it
on a lighter note though im glad that Clinton won its a good blow for us ladies- but i must qualify that and say that between Obama and Clinton it will be a good election coz as far as im concerned they are both underdogs and il be damned if i dont stand up for the underdogs! yey for blacks and YEY for women (can you just tell who is the bigger underdog to me?) i read this story about how kissing in SA will soon be enough to land kids in big time trouble and this is whether its consensual or not-should put a right big stop to underage PDA which is the most unsightly thing after Visible Panty Lines and lecherous old men!
now im awake- things have cooled down somewhat in the city of Nairobi and one can hardly believe that this was the scene of all that madness last week! and i think i know whats keeping me up!