… I am that friend that likes to fix problems.
I can listen and commiserate and all that but after sometime, I like to get going and come up with solutions that promise action. I am OK to venture widely and fail spectacularly, but for me its about the movement forward and that counts significantly. I do allow friends around me to wallow but when I see that they are stuck in that moment, I quietly detach and forge onward to other situations and constructions that are more meaningful! Life is too short to sit around the fire and celebrate in the pity party.